If you see me blankly staring into space it’s because of the latest question. He asked me, “Did you know before you don’t know?” It sounds absurd when you say it out loud. A question that folds in on itself. But it made perfect sense to him. And somehow, I am expected to know how to answer it. To translate a question that does not follow rules into something that does. This is what so many conversations look like for us. Not because he is confused, but because his mind connects things differentl